“BUSTY GIRLS ARE PRETTIER” --by Rose

(Image source: www.ghanacelebrities.com)

Much as we blame the media for everything, men naturally adore big bursts; truthfully, most men are attracted to girls with big cups than small breasted women. The affinity for big busts goes beyond physical attraction to something biological; people tend to think that women with bigger breasts are more fertile.

Women with smaller cups might feel less feminine, this all begins mainly during the period of puberty, when a girl is not quick to develop big breasts. At the early stage, she is not really bothered as she still has time to grow them, but when she is closing on early adulthood she might begin to feel shy, she becomes excessively aware of herself, her  ‘unattractive’ nature, the rude boys in her class might call her names like ‘ flat chest’ or ‘eggs’, that would definitely leave a mark on her psyche, almost an indelible one.

But what happens to her in the real world? Why does she still feel bad about herself? Well it’s the media and the guys! So much emphasis is placed on a woman’s physical beauty; pages of exquisite magazines are graced with that mythical figure, tall and slender, flat tommy, good hips and great bosom. While watching TV, her man gapes wide open at this, probably a girl of his fantasies.

The woman becomes shy to undress before her fellow women, remembering she is ‘eggs’, who would want to see that? You see how men stare and compliment her busty friends, and she looks down on her chest hoping for a miracle. The worst hit is usually if her partner dumps her for someone busty, it really hurts.

So she opts for what she can afford; traditional medicine which involves herbs for boosting cup size, pumping of the breasts or plastic surgery. The only reason most of these women do this, is just for beauty sake, to get attention and feel comfortable about themselves. Is that a bad thing?

Whatever form of solution one takes has a side effect, ranging from, blood poisoning by drinking unknown herbs in unmeasured quantities, skin cancer from breast enlargement   creams, hypertension and death in cases where the breasts get infected.

Breast size is mainly determined by the gene factor and a little by the nutrition factor, so stop beating yourself, if it’s from your genes, then you have to accept yourself, you could wear breast pads to augment them to feel better.

But whatever you do, anybody who genuinely loves you would not be bothered by breast size and would adore you just the way you are. Remember being busty does not correlate with being beautiful, you have to love yourself and your boobs. You are such a beautiful and amazing person with a great mind. Unleash your greatness.