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Friday, 22 January 2016

MY AFRICA --by Rose


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Let it sound from the mountains
Let it echo in the valleys
Like the sound of rushing wind
As the cattle scurry
As the birds take flight
When the sound of Africa is heard
The sound of drums
Ululations and horns
My Africa is beautiful
So am I

Africa, my mother
Womb that birthed me
Berries that fed me
Herbs that healed my flesh
Your rivers quenched my thirst
And I worshipped them
Africa, the essence of all life
My Africa is beautiful
So am I

Your land is greatly watered
By gold, oil and silver
But all lost in the bellies
Of your chosen leaders
Sons and daughters
For how long
Shall the hero be a slave?
Africa subject of mockery
You who once had glory
Your rubies are lost
Beyond this lands
In foreign saves

But I look upon you with hope
Great beauty
Squashed like sour pomegranate
I have hope,
As the star glitters each night
So shall you recover strength
And regain your honour
Beyond this lands
On foreign cliffs
Africa

I will dance for you
I will wriggle my waist
To your drugging rhythms
I will drown in your river
You give me life
I will burn in your fires
Remake me
There is hope mother
I smile at it
My Africa is beautiful

So am I

Thursday, 21 January 2016

LANTERN --by Nickz

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He watches the woman he loves yell in pain; legs spread, eyes wide, fists clenched. Her moans are those of a tormented soul. He’s moved but there’s nothing he can do. One night in bed, nine months of swell, one moment of hell, to bring joy or tears.
His maker wants to bless, so he’s rewarded a babe. The cry fills the air and they all jubilate. But one good deed has brought one bad thing. The bearer of the load, her baby, she can’t behold. Lifeless she lays, bleeding away.
He cannot believe it! Right before his eyes, they spread the white sheet. A hand rests on his shoulder: “I’m sorry, we couldn’t save her.” Maybe the white coated bloke was just making a joke. But it’s all real and he feels the hit. He falls on his knees and blames the supreme.
She was a good woman. She was a rare human. They had walked down the aisle two years behind. They had made love vows and exchanged their bands. Now, she’s sailed a brute route on the harvest of their first fruit. All that was left; a gift they could have shared. “Sir, she’s so beautiful. Come on, hold her!” there’s moisture in his eyes as he receives the tiny life. One loss, one gain, life couldn’t be fair.

He feels light flicker in his soul. He will call her Lantern. He would lay down his life for hers. He would love her with all his might. She has illuminated his heart. “Let’s go home, Lantern.”


BODY SHAMING­ --by Rose


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We all can relate to that weird looking­ kid back in school, who was either fat or ugly or skinny. We usuall­y singled them out and made fun of them, sometimes we bully them ‘cause ­they are the weakest both physically and emotionally. They usuall­y walked alone except they had an exceptional talent. Nobody wanted be­ing seen with a loser. Sadly, such labels as fat, ugly, skinny, ­were not just mere childish utterances and jest, they enveloped the person i­n a mental cell of self hate, inferiority complex and depression. Suc­h children as they grow up either try fitting into the society by ­all means or being against everyone.­ Body Shaming involves acts of bullying,­ cursing and mocking a person because of their body type.

Adults also­ shame people. Sometimes on a Facebook post, you could see body shamin­g expressions like "ugly duckling"," fat pig"  and stuff like that which hurt very dee­ply. Just imagine yourself for a minute bein­g bullied or refused opportunities just because of your physical appearanc­e. How would you feel? We are quick to make statements that de­stroy people’s self esteem: "she is too fat", "so ugly", as if we created ­them.

The effects of body shaming range from­ eating disorders, risky plastic surgery to change one’s looks, h­omosexuality, rape, depression and suicide.­ Many people with weight problems start ­to take diet coke and pills that can kill just to slim down quickly­, weight loss doesn’t just happen, it’s gradual.­ The skinny ones go for surgery that cou­ld endanger their lives just for “better” boobs and hips, and pretty lips/nose­. Some even go to the extent of eye color change.­ Due to low self esteem and loneliness some of such people become homosexuals as they are desperate for attention. To ­be wanted by someone means a lot to them!­ Some carry childhood humiliation and an­ger and turn into serial rapists. Since they can’t have pretty wo­men, why not force them?


Body shaming leads to feelings of worth­lessness and long bouts of depression which usually leads to suici­de. Having read about the long term consequ­ences of body shaming, we might not eliminate this completely but we ca­n try something. Parents should teach their kids to be nice and teacher­s should avoid name calling and singling a child out because of his phy­sical appearance. But the greatest move would be for the social m­edia to do a campaign against body shaming.­ Remember, that song by Lady Gaga, "I wa­s born this way," you are on the right track friend, you were born that way, God makes no mistake.

TALES FROM THE SLUM 7 --by Slick


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Hello guys, hope the New Year has been treating you well.  This episode is a sequel to the previous episodes and I hope you have enjoyed them so far. This is Episode 7.
Enjoy!!!

PHAMUS FOODS COMPANY
Dupe had just arrived at the gate of Mustapha’s business establishment, still deliberating on the best approach to take in confronting him about his giving her a sexually transmitted disease. All the while she sat in the taxi that brought her to Salaam Avenue, she thought of sending him abusive text messages but her heart could not bring her to do it as she kept deleting each word that she typed on her Blackberry Passport.  It was best for her to see him in person and bear out the venom that had continuously built up inside of her. She alighted and paid off the taxi driver and started making her way to Mustapha’s office. Inside the company’s complex, there were workers loading bags of rice into a 911 truck and no one seemed to have noticed her presence except for the gateman dressed in his official wear, who addressed her in an accent that easily told her that he was from the northern part of the country.

“Madam, who I dey find?” He inquired while staring lustfully at her full figure.
“Is Mustapha in the office?”
“Madam , na my oga I dey call like that?” He replied in displeasure at the fact that she had just called his boss by his first name.
“Look I do not have the time for this your drama, is he in or not?” She replied while sizing him up with eyes that looked like that she could see through him.
“Come sign visitors book hia, oga dey office,” he replied while motioning her to the small room that served as the reception.

But Dupe was not in the mood for any formal activities and as such she stormed past him and was heading for Mustapha’s office which she hoped to find easily since it was her first time here. The gateman chased after her, repeatedly pleading with her to at least sign the visitors book as the establishment’s customs demanded.
She found his office easily since every office in Phamus Foods Company had name tags on each of the door posts. Without asking, she barged into the office to find Mustapha seated with two men whom looked like his business partners. They were in the middle of something very important as they were exchanging and reading documents, but she was here on a mission and nothing was going to stop her.

“You Bastard, you wanted to kill me abi?” She screamed at him.
His business partners were taken aback and were throwing glances at Mustapha and the angry woman who had just joined them. Mustapha sat in silence and was unperturbed by this outrageous behaviour Dupe had just displayed.
“So you are going to sit there and stare at me like an idol without saying anything?”
There was still no response from Mustapha. Instead he picked up the receiver of the intercom on his table and called his aides to come to his office. In the twinkle of an eye, two men that looked like that they spent all their lives lifting heavy objects appeared and they were commanded by Mustapha to throw Dupe outside the gates of the company.

“Gentlemen, please throw this crazy lady and that crazy gateman out of my gates.”
Without further ado, Dupe’s legs were in the air as one of the aides had lifted her upon his shoulder and was heading for the gates. She managed to throw the result of the tests that she had conducted on the floor of the office and in the process bumped her head at the door post. Soon enough, she was outside the gates screaming on top of her voice; every abusive word that came to mind. She was also joined by the gate man, who consistently blamed her for his current predicament. The workers inside the company as well as passers-by had a field day staring and laughing at both of them.
The gateman went ahead to engage Dupe in a heated verbal war blaming her for making him lose his job at Phamus Foods.

“Madam, see wetin I don cause for me? You don make Oga sack me.”
“What is my business with this one my God?” She asked as she lifted her head to the skies with her hands on her waist.
“Madam, how my family go take survive? Work wey I never do reach 3 months.”
Dupe was not interested in what he had to say, instead she was throwing every object she could find on the ground over the fence into the company’s grounds while releasing abusive words from her arsenal to the invisible Mustapha
“Mustapha, my God will punish you.”
“You threw me out like refuse. A whole me!”
“It is not over o. I will disgrace you everywhere.”

After the show of shame was over, she tried to pacify the gateman by offering him some money while she flanked a taxi to take her back to the slum. She was exhausted and too embarrassed to be seen anywhere around Salaam Avenue any time soon. At the back seat of the taxi, she reminisced her recent ordeal in the hands of a man whom had claimed to love her. She muttered under her breath.
“Love is a bastard.”.
The taxi driver stared at her through the rear view and asked to find out if she was okay.
“Madam, hope say all is well?” He inquired
“Oga, just drive wetin you dey drive abeg. Nothing concerns you.”
He simply nodded in comprehension.

Back in Mustapha’s office, he apologized to his guests for Dupe’s unruly behaviour as he carefully snuck the piece of paper he had picked from the floor into his drawer.
“My people, I am sorry for that girl’s behaviour. You know how women can be.”
“It is alright man. Just keep her on a leash so that she does not ruin things for you.” One of the men dressed in Agbada and a traditional cap to match replied.
“Let us attend to important matters.” They all had a brief moment of laughter before settling on the transactions that they had to take care of.
****
CHANEL 5
It was 7:55pm and Chinedu was already standing outside the doors of Chanel 5. He had made sure that he had carried with him every item that the text message had contained. He was still marvelled at the modus operandi of the Chanel 5 management when it came to recruiting people. He had asked Tunde questions relating to this matter at hand, but Tunde had only advised him to go for the interview and that there was no harm in trying.
Chinedu was dressed in a white shirt, a black trouser, and a tie to match holding an envelope which contained the items he was asked to bring along; eight passports and two new SIM cards. There was minor activity going on outside the club in addition to a drunken man that had just been thrown out by the bouncers. He hit the floor like a pack of cards and was vomiting every liquid in his system. The bouncers seemed to be very angry with him.
“Baba Hafusa, I don tell you make you no dey drink wetin pass you.” One of the bouncers said to the drunk man who was lying in a pool of his vomit.
“No dey tell me that thing for your life again.” Baba Hafusa replied in a slurry tone which showed that he had drank more than his body system could contain.
The bouncer said nothing in return, instead shook his head in pity at the nuisance this old drunk had just made of himself.

Chinedu was just trying to take in the picture of the little drama that had just played before his eyes, when a black Mercedes Kompressor pulled up behind him. He turned around to see who had lost his driving skills when the driver engaged him in a conversation.
“Are you Chinedu?” He asked in a croaky voice.
“Yes. And is that the reason why you want to hit me with your car?” Chinedu replied him in an angry tone. He obviously was not happy with the way the driver had pulled up his car behind him. He now noticed that the driver was dressed in a black sweat shirt and wore dark shades which concealed some part of his identity.
“Come with me.” The driver replied him choosing to ignore the rude manner in which he had just been spoken to. He pressed a button the steering wheel of the car which granted Chinedu access through the passenger’s door.

Chinedu stepped into the car whose air-conditioning was at work; and was about strapping on his seat belt, when a hand came from behind his seat to cover his nose with a handkerchief. He struggled to get free of his hostage situation but in few seconds, he was dizzy and passed out unconscious. The last words he heard were
“You too dey talk. You be woman?”
Chinedu had just been taken hostage by two armed men who had no intention of harming him. Instead, he was supposed to be presented to his interviewers without him remembering the route to the venue of the interview.

Soon they were on the ground floor of a building which appeared to have been abandoned by the owner to natural circumstances. Chinedu had been blind-folded all the way there with his hands tied behind his back. He soon regained consciousness after being unconscious for over an hour. His belongings had been confiscated. He was seated on the dusty floor and could hear distant voices that seemed to be talking about him. The smell of burning cigarettes had filled the atmosphere around him, therefore he was certain that he was not alone and probably had eyes staring at him.

“Mrs Ayobami, are you sure about this boy? I cannot take chances o.” A man said
“Leader, just relax and let all this drama play out. It is too late to turn back now o.” She replied
Chinedu could not believe his ears. That was his Landlady’s voice. What was she doing here with kidnappers? How did he offend her for her to have had him kidnapped? Sudden sweat had begun form under his armpits and urine gathering in his bowels.
“Look Iya Oloja, if he misbehaves I have no choice than to end his miserable life.” The male voice spoke again.
“It won’t come to that I promise you.” Mrs Ayobami replied.
On hearing that he was going to be killed, Chinedu began to scream and begged for his life to be spared. He still had his blind-fold on, and could barely tell where he was. All that mattered to him was staying alive at any cost.
“Please o, don’t kill me o. I only came for a job interview o.” Chinedu was in tears that had been soaking the black cloth that was used to cover his eye from the rays of sunlight. He struggled with the rope that restrained his hands but could not break free instead his wrists had begun to bleed.
“Iya Oloja, look at the coward you brought me. I need a strong man, not a school boy.” The male voice said again.
“Leader, please relax while we await the arrival of the others. We have a long night ahead of us.” Mrs Ayobami said while trying to reach the remaining members of The Stakeholders over the phone.
“I just hope you are right.” The leader replied.
****
ANITA’S RESIDENCE
After a shower that seemed to take forever, Dupe put on her blue gown that revealed some part of her thighs and her slender legs, some light make up and silver ear-rings that complemented the necklace that she had on. She had called Anita over the phone on her way back from Mustapha’s office to tell her that she was going to spend the night at her place. Anita had initially frowned at the idea, but could tell that something was off from the way Dupe sounded over the phone. Thus she had no choice but to grant Dupe’s request. After all, they were friends and were currently having emotional issues.

Dupe stepped out of her gate wearing slip-ons, as she looked at both ends of her street in search of a motorcycle that would convey her to her friend’s place. Soon an Okada rider approached her position and she gave him details about her destination but first she had to stop at a wine shop to buy some alcohol. This was what she needed at this sad moment in her life. She needed something to help her cool off and at the same time forget Mustapha.
On the motorcycle, she pulled out her Blackberry and sent Anita a message through BBM.
“Babe, I don dey come. I go bring shayo and suya.” She texted
“Dupe, you wan kill me? You know say my mama dey house.” Anita replied.
“That one concern you. She fit follow us shayo na.”
“You don dey mad. I dey house sha. Just turn up.”
Dupe smiled to herself as the wind played with her hair while the motorcycle sped off to her destination.


Tuesday, 19 January 2016

NPFL SUPER 4 FIXTURES --Kreed

 
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It’s here again, arguably the biggest pre-season event in the Nigerian football sphere. The Nigerian Professional Football League (NPFL) Super 4, which is a football event that features the top 3 NPFL teams and the winners of the federation cup, in a previously concluded season. The First round of the tournament is scheduled for kick-off on 20th of January and ends on the 24th of January, while the Second round starts on the 1st of February and ends on the 5th of the same month. This was announced by the League Management Committee (LMC) on Tuesday (12th January, 2016).
The first round of the NPFL Super 4 will be hosted by Kaduna, Kaduna State and the second round will be hosted by Uyo, Akwa Ibom State, which is coincidentally the home of the reigning Federation Cup champions, Akwa United. It is important to note that all the teams in the Super 4 tournament will be representing Nigeria, in the various continental football tournaments this coming season.
Furthermore, the LMC announced 21st February, 2016, exactly 16 days after the second round of the super 4 tournament, as the Kickoff date for the new season. The season is slated for conclusion on the 2nd of October, 2016. Below are the fixtures for the Super 4 tournament.

FIXTURES:

FIRST ROUND (VENUE: AHMADU BELLO STADIUM, KADUNA)

JAN. 20 (Match Day 1):  Warri Wolves vs Akwa United 
                                           Enyimba FC vs Nasarawa United

JAN. 22 (Match Day 2):  Nasarawa United vs Warri Wolves
                                           Akwa United vs Enyimba FC

JAN. 24 (Match Day 3):  Akwa United vs Nasarawa United
                                           Warri Wolves vs Enyimba FC

SECOND ROUND (VENUE: AKWA IBOM INTERNATIONAL STADIUM, UYO)

FEB. 1 (Match Day 1): Nasarawa United vs Akwa United 
                                        Enyimba FC vs Warri Wolves

FEB. 3 (Match Day 2): Nasarawa United vs Enyimba FC
                                        Akwa United vs Warri Wolves

FEB. 5 (Match Day 3): Enyimba FC vs Akwa United
                                        Warri Wolves vs Nasarawa United

You can download the full schedule for the upcoming season through this link: http://npfl.ng/images/2016/NPFL_2016_SEASON_CALENDAR.pdf



7 REASONS MEN CHEAT ON WOMEN --by Rose

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Over the years, male infidelity has been treated as something "normal" as to female infidelity. With the breakdown of the polygamous nature of the ancient world men find it difficult to stick to one woman. Not all men cheat, however, the idea of a "faithful" man has become a myth. It is not in the nature of some men to cheat.
Cheating on one's spouse is done because of a variety of reasons. For this piece, I want to emphasize some ways women unconsciously push their men outside. Definitely women are not always the cause of a men's infidelity but with some actions, could create an enabling environment for such to take place. Below Are seven key factors that
push men outside:
1. NAGGING
Although few men nag, most women nag a lot, nagging means repeated complaining about someone's misgivings, often in an annoying way. If your man hurts you, just say it out plain and simple and stop reminding him of his past sins. It also involves calling the man derogatory names, making mockery of him and hurting his ego (men have such a big ego).When you keep making a whole lot of noise like an old radio, he's gonna go hang with his friends to get some fresh air and then in the process, you lose him to a new "telephone"(that only make noise when there's a call or an alarm).
2. COMPARING HIM WITH OTHERS
Believe me, this hurts a man more than anything, when you begin to list his failures and compare him with your ex boyfriends or the husbands of your friend, he is definitely gonna look for a woman who's proud to have him the way he is.
3. LACK OF ATTENTION
This is most common in married couples with children.  When the woman makes her children number one in her scale of preference, she plays with fire. What happened to making your man feel special? giving him warm
baths? hovering round him like a shy teenager? Don't let kids get in the way my dear.
4. POOR HYGIENE
Most women do not maintain their hygiene standards after marriage due to stress of taking care of the family. Some just stay unclean 'cause it's a natural thing to them. Do you  shave your armpits? brush twice or more? have your bath twice daily? maintain the house properly? No man would love to kiss a dirty woman. The subject of hygiene in marriage is a very sensitive one. Do you think
it's easy for a man to tell you that you reek? He's gonna find a well perfumed mistress to warm him.
5. POOR CULINARY SKILLS
The way to a man's heart is his stomach. This may sound funny but if you have a man who is a foodie and you can't meet his taste except he really loves you, he may start patronising fast foods and there are lots of young ladies there...so think!
6. SILENT TREATMENT
When there is a quarrel and it's not resolved, some women ignore their husbands and avoid them, even when they try chatting with them. They give cold shoulders to their attention and indirect apology. He would definitely look for company. Try and resolve all quarrels.
7. REFUSAL OF SEX
Some women deliberately withold sex from a man for months in a bid to punish or frustrate him. Starving your husband sexually is very foolish except of course he is a pervert (run for your life). Give it to him abundantly,trap him, let your body be his only drug!

 Men, this is not to encourage you to cheat, by all means, learn to love your woman and stay faithful.

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